Spiritual and relationship expert, teacher, counselor, advisor, speaker, and writer James Gray Robinson

Relationship Dictionary

Relationship Dictionary 

To Find The One, You Have To Be The One

 

Addict: Someone whose compulsion to find happiness is greater than their fear of adverse consequences.

 

Addiction: The compulsive belief that you need something or someone to make you happy.

 

Adultery: When someone betrays themselves.

 

Anger: The loss of emotional control due to perceived threat.

 

Askhole: The person who repeatedly asks for your advice and never takes it.

 

Bastard: A man who disagrees with you.

 

Beauty: What you (or society) perceive as attractive.

 

Being authentic: Revealing who you really are.

 

Bitch: A woman who disagrees with you.

 

Boundaries: The line between acceptable and unacceptable.

 

Broken Heart: A temper tantrum occurring when you don’t get who you want.

 

Children: Mindfulness police.

 

Co-Dependent: People who think everyone and everything is their responsibility.

 

Commitment: The glue that binds one or more people together.

 

Confusion: The clash of belief systems.

 

Conscience: The ability to understand the effect of your actions on others.

 

Consciousness: The awareness of everything that happens.

 

Depression: Being focused on negativity and worst-case scenario outcomes. It can be caused by emotional trauma or imbalanced brain chemistry.

 

Devotee: People who don’t want to be a guru.

 

Disappointment: How you feel when you don’t get what you desire or expect.

 

Divorce: The opportunity to redefine yourself with less.

 

Drama Kings and Queens: People who are controlled by their emotions.

 

Dysfucktional: The inability to get into a satisfying relationship.

 

Emotional Maturity: The ability to understand and control your emotions.

 

Empathy: The ability to understand and feel what someone else is experiencing.

 

Enlightenment: That point when you stop needing workshops.

 

Ex: Someone that has left the Zone of Resonance.

 

Expectations: How we want our life to be.

 

Fear: The belief or feeling that we will lose what we have or never get what we desire. The cause of most relationship problems.

 

Foregiveness: End of judgment of yourself and others.

 

God: What you perceive.

 

Goddess: Feminine power manifested.

 

Guilt: The irrational belief that we caused what we don’t want.

 

Guru: Someone you pay to teach you what you already know.

 

Happiness: The state of well-being associated with living without expectations or judgment of yourself or others.

 

Healing: Getting all of yourself out of the way.

 

Holding Space: Keeping someone’s space in queue until they can get there.

 

Jealousy: The dragon that is called by your insecurity.

 

Law of Allowing: Letting yourself be who you are, and others be who they are.

 

Law of Attraction: The process where you learn you don’t always get what you want.

 

Law of Contrast: The experience of getting what we don’t want so we can discover who we are.

 

Law of Harmony: What happens when two people are in the zone of resonance.

 

Letting Go: Turning away from the past to choose the next adventure.

 

Life: What happens when you have something else planned.

 

Love: Making the relationship more important than being right.

 

Lust: The addictive desire to be in an orgasmic state and is often confused with love.

 

Marriage: The fastest path to enlightenment or divorce.

 

Mental Constipation: The inability to give a shit.

 

Mental Masturbation: The inability to let go of a thought and overthinking something you already have the answer to.

 

Mental Maturity: The ability to control your thoughts.

 

Mindfulness: What New Age gurus call paying attention.

 

Open Relationship: Relationships free from society’s expectations, usually referring to knees.

 

Narcissist (Iamthepath): It really is all about me. (Ex. When someone says, “It’s me, not you”, they’re right)

 

Parenting: When you find out how good a teacher you are.

 

Predator: Someone who will do or say anything to get what they want and then leaves.

 

Prison(emotional): A self-constructed trap with bars made of regret.

 

Projection: Judging others based your assumptions.

 

Psychopath: Someone who has no conscience.

 

Regret: Resistance to who we are.

 

Resentment: Thinking a thought over and over again.

 

Self-love: Removing society’s programing that limits who we think we are.

 

Shame: The way people control others.

 

Single: The opportunity to become the one for yourself without distractions.

 

Sociopath: Someone that actually could care less.

 

Soulmate: Someone who will never say no.

 

Spiritual Terrorist: Someone who uses spiritual principles to justify using others. See, Predator.

 

Stress: The belief that life should be different.

 

Success: Getting what you want versus wanting what you get.

 

Taking responsibility: achieving emotional and mental maturity and accepting the consequences of your actions.

 

Victimhood: Refusing to take responsibility.

 

Zone of Resonance: An extremely fragile place where two people’s vibratory rates are close enough to be within tolerance.

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